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When Did Compassion Become Tribal?

A tragedy should make us see a human being before we see a Christian, atheist, disabled person or political opponent.

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Paul Ian Clarke
Sep 02, 2026
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Rembrandt painting of a richly dressed man and woman standing closely together, his arm resting gently around her shoulders and his hand placed over hers. Their expressions are quiet and intimate, with warm light drawing attention to their faces and joined hands against a dark background.
The Jewish Bride by Rembrandt van Rijn, c. 1665–1669. A tender portrayal of love, care and human connection. Image: Wikimedia Commons.

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Last weekend, a 41-year-old man died at the Big Church Festival in West Sussex after a large sign fell at the site. At least six other people were injured, the festival was brought to a close, and police and the Health and Safety Executive are now investigating what happened.

It is an awful, tragic story. A man went to a festival and did not come home. Somewhere there is a family trying to comprehend that, friends who were expecting to see him again, and people who witnessed what happened and will probably replay it in their minds for a long time.

Before anything else, there is simply a human tragedy.

And yet, as news of what had happened began appearing online, I noticed something else. Almost immediately, some people seemed to see not a dead man, but an opportunity. Because the event was a Christian festival, some of the comments turned into jokes about Christianity, prayer, God, or the supposed foolishness of those who had chosen to attend.

I probably should not have been surprised, but I was. There is something particularly upsetting about watching someone else’s tragedy being processed first through the question of which tribe they belonged to.

I have found myself wondering whether we are becoming increasingly good at doing this. Not simply disagreeing with one another, but seeing categories before we see people.

A Christian dies, and some people see Christianity. An immigrant commits a crime, and some people see immigration. A disabled person receives financial support, and some people see benefits. A Muslim does something terrible, and some people see Islam. A politician makes a mistake, and people who dislike the party sometimes seem almost pleased.

The individual disappears remarkably quickly.

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